Hello All, Gender-Bender.Tumblr and LoversAtRisk.Tumblr are tumbl logs that do not exist for profit. They are only vehicles to share what I find to be interesting and arousing photos. Please - if you find one of your photos posted here and want it taken down - just ask me (newryder-@-gmail.com) and I will comply. If you find an uncredited photo and want an attribute - please let me know. Thanks -ryder Thanks to everyone looking at and following this tumblr. I started this as a scrapbook for myself, a place to collect the images of strapon sex that appealed to ME. As people began to follow the focus changed. Now this Strapon Log is a way for me to put onto the internet what I found so hard to find. Images and talk about strapon sex that paralleled my experience and my history. I would love to hear from you, (mailto:newryder@gmail.com ) if you have any questions or comments. Sex can be amazing. Strapon sex is just sex - but it can be amazing. I have spent a lot of time looking for information on Pegging, Strapon’s and Male bottom, submissive sex. There just is not much out there that is not out and out commercial porn. This is my attempt to add something real to the internet about one of the most private and amazing and confusing things I’ve been caught up in. I am not into torture or humiliation or mind control. I am just into male female sex and Gender-Bending role reversal and anal intercourse. If you are a couple new to strapon sex - be kind to each other. This is weird shit. Take you time and love each. Enjoy your lover. Ryder http://newryder.blogspot.com/Tumblr (3.0; @gender-bender)http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/<img src="http://21.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kudxjeYx8x1qzzh7qo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Soma Stardust and Fierce<br/>By Richard Kadrey</p>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/276048605http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/276048605Wed, 09 Dec 2009 07:33:13 -0500<img src="http://19.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ku8r3bLBlx1qzzhs8o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a href="http://www.modsmut.com/post/273737733/libraryvixen-thigh">modsmut</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://libraryvixen.tumblr.com/post/271898527/thigh">libraryvixen</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>thigh</p> </blockquote> </blockquote>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/274594722http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/274594722Tue, 08 Dec 2009 07:20:27 -0500<img src="http://2.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kuc0jq1Hvt1qzzh7qo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Here is a copy of this amazing portrait without the feet cropped off. -ryder</p> <p>Home of the Vain, by Nikola Tamindzic</p>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/274568133http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/274568133Tue, 08 Dec 2009 06:43:02 -0500<img src="http://18.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ku8lfmiGKt1qzqbf4o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a href="http://art-or-porn.tumblr.com/post/272986730/deepervalley">art-or-porn</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://deepervalley.tumblr.com/post/271788781">deepervalley</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://ruero.com/16061-k-igram-gotova.html">К играм - готова! » Эротика по-русски</a></p> </blockquote> </blockquote>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/273022224http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/273022224Mon, 07 Dec 2009 04:58:36 -0500<img src="http://23.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_krtgnmKkHq1qzublqo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>I find this photo to be absolutely electrifying. From the tri-color palette to the perfect model, to the thigh harness. The dildo and the wearer both invite and challenge.  <br/>An amazing shot. The woman is not naked, in fact does not even expose her neck. She shows warmth but no vulnerability. Everything about this photo is concentrated on the didlo. The woman stands off center in the frame and the dildo sits center frame. It is impossible not to spare at her thigh and look again at her gaze.<br/>Sorry to carry on like an art critic but this is a great photo.</p> <p>-ryder</p> <p><a href="http://strapons.tumblr.com/post/250275742/strap-on-queen-soupergirl">strapons</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://strap-on-queen.tumblr.com/post/250246076/soupergirl-psychespet-pinkythekinky-foto-de">strap-on-queen</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://soupergirl.tumblr.com/post/237233987/psychespet-pinkythekinky-foto-de-nicola">soupergirl</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://psychespet.tumblr.com/post/237165232/pinkythekinky-foto-de-nicola-tamindzic-via">psychespet</a>:<a href="http://pinkythekinky.com/post/236921917/foto-de-nicola-tamindzic-via-fluffy-lychees">pinkythekinky</a>:</p> <blockquote> <blockquote> <p>Foto de <a href="http://www.homeofthevain.com/">Nicola Tamindzic</a></p> <p>via <a href="http://fluffylychees.blogspot.com/2008/03/home-of-vain.html?zx=54e8c40dffbfce59">fluffy Lychees: Home Of The Vain</a></p> </blockquote> </blockquote> </blockquote> </blockquote> <p>c’mere and sit on my knee so we can talk.</p> </blockquote>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/270226972http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/270226972Sat, 05 Dec 2009 06:20:00 -0500<img src="http://1.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ktq94l5AQK1qzzhs8o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a href="http://libraryvixen.tumblr.com/post/258451797/strokes-by-george-pitts-model-tanya">libraryvixen</a>:<br/><a href="http://tanyadakin.blogspot.com/"><a href="http://tanyadakin.blogspot.com/">http://tanyadakin.blogspot.com/</a></a></p> <blockquote> <p>strokes</p> <p>by George Pitts Model Tanya</p> </blockquote>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/264813564http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/264813564Tue, 01 Dec 2009 06:56:31 -0500<img src="http://20.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ktfagzGZeQ1qzzh7qo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Words fail…</p>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/251053305http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/251053305Fri, 20 Nov 2009 14:36:00 -0500submissive malestraponpegging<img src="http://20.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ktazbyrari1qzzh7qo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/248370828http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/248370828Wed, 18 Nov 2009 06:45:00 -0500peggingstrapon<img src="http://11.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ksyo7qhWYo1qzzh7qo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>It’s a quiet day. <br/>You and I have been ships in the night. <br/>When we come back around and are full face to the moon, you and I will seek each other out.<br/>I will think about you night and day.<br/>I will compose stories to say into your ear.<br/>I will pledge my love.<br/>I will take your harnessed phallus as deep as it will go.<br/>I will turn on you and mount you and blow my seed deep inside you.<br/>With my tongue in your steaming sex I will retrieve what once was mine.<br/>Then you will ride the waves as I lick you clean until you pull me up to kiss.</p> <p>ryder</p>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/240595332http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/240595332Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:14:00 -0500straponpeggingwritten word<img src="http://23.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ksy1xbbG7X1qzzh7qo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Thanks- I’ll have what she’s having.</p>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/240216477http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/240216477Wed, 11 Nov 2009 07:12:47 -0500<img src="http://14.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kscct6Zdys1qzzhs8o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Pretty Girl Friday<br/><a href="http://libraryvixen.tumblr.com/post/228148849/big-black"><br/>libraryvixen</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>big black</p> </blockquote>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/228162060http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/228162060Fri, 30 Oct 2009 15:19:00 -0400straponpegging<img src="http://4.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ksb4vkfAjF1qzs286o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Sometimes I see a photo and I think, “that’s how I feel”.<br/>The Strapon isn’t punishment. <br/>I like it. <br/>I like you in it. <br/>I like it in me.<br/>I will happily lead you by the dick, lay on the bed and show you where it goes.<br/>I mean, I can show you where it goes. <br/>But what you do with it?<br/>Well I guess that’s the magic…</p> <p>-ryder</p> <p>(via <a href="http://realprincess.tumblr.com/">realprincess</a>)</p>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/227820706http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/227820706Fri, 30 Oct 2009 06:24:00 -0400straponwritten wordpegging<img src="http://2.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_krzay24WSm1qzzh7qo1_400.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Pretty Girl Friday</p>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/221089895http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/221089895Fri, 23 Oct 2009 13:51:00 -0400straponpegging<img src="http://19.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kry9naZmCF1qzs286o1_400.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Points for style….</p> <p>(via <a href="http://realprincess.tumblr.com/">realprincess</a>)</p>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/220820021http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/220820021Fri, 23 Oct 2009 06:25:00 -0400straponpegging<img src="http://8.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kru1eyxxDq1qzzh7qo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>E.Rockett - Day 30 of 365</p>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/218417192http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/218417192Tue, 20 Oct 2009 17:37:00 -0400straponpegging<img src="http://16.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_krlt55cmji1qzzh7qo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>One little photo can lighten my day…mmm<br/>File under; things to do while you have a peg in your ass.</p>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/214602880http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/214602880Fri, 16 Oct 2009 06:58:00 -0400straponwritten wordpegginglesbian<img src="http://18.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_krlsx5aDve1qzzh7qo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Via Lazerbunny.com</p>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/214600990http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/214600990Fri, 16 Oct 2009 06:53:00 -0400straponpegginglesbian<img src="http://20.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kref7eQGMN1qzzh7qo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Someone I would like know - ‘cause she’s not like other people.<br/>E. Rockett Via Flickr</p>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/210958239http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/210958239Mon, 12 Oct 2009 07:14:00 -0400straponpegginglesbianwritten word<img src="http://13.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kr7oik9GEo1qzx73ro1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>(via <a href="http://djangomango.tumblr.com/">djangomango</a>)</p>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/207796528http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/207796528Thu, 08 Oct 2009 16:36:00 -0400straponpeggingorgy<img src="http://13.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kqct3dviWn1qza22wo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Mmm…when I am being topped, this is the bottom that I dream of being.<br/>Sweet, tender, connected.</p> <p>Things to do tomorrow;<br/>Stack wood.<br/>Go for a run.<br/>Stop into the shop and tell some lies.<br/>Have strapon sex.<br/>Buy groceries.<br/>Diner & a movie. <br/>Love each other - and say so.</p> <p>-ryder</p> <p><a href="http://smuttynakedness.tumblr.com/post/196071695/clipstack-blowwindblow-via-skin2skin">smuttynakedness</a>:</p> <blockquote> <a href="http://clipstack.tumblr.com/post/193972523/blowwindblow-via-skin2skin">clipstack</a>:<a href="http://blowwindblow.tumblr.com/post/193951259/via-skin2skin">blowwindblow</a>:(via <a href="http://skin2skin.tumblr.com/">skin2skin</a>)</blockquote>http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/202508166http://gender-bender.tumblr.com/post/202508166Fri, 02 Oct 2009 07:10:00 -0400straponpegginglesbianwritten word