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So. Why is it? - Here’s the deal.

So why is it, that the majority of images, that show a man and woman (or excuse me my chauvinistic bias - woman and a man) making love, having strapon sex - why is the man always on his knees and getting reamed? 
Or, why is the man on his back and the woman up on her knees, upright, poking him as if from a distance?
Why not more images of people making love, the way a man and woman make love?

What is the deal with all the disengagement? 

Speaking simply as a man that likes to engage in gender play and gender role swapping - get up on me. Please. Engage me, kiss me, hold me, move with me. It is not an exam, it is a love act.  

Of course there are some good images, and I try to collect and post them here. But much of what I see, is alienation.

Strapon is so cool, opens so many doors, offers so many new possibilities for coming together and experiencing each other, is such a great way to explore gender - or the abandonment of gender.

Here’s the deal-

For me - Ryder - I need you where I can feel you - where I can feel your heart hammering through your ribs - syncing with mine - where I can feel your sweat trickle down your breast - run with mine - where we become - the ultimate particle accelerator - where we crash together - splinter into more finite pieces that we can study - learn from - from which we can see the basic building blocks of ourselves - the selves that make up - the US - the WE.   

That’s all I wanted to ask and say on this Thursday night.

Be good to each other,
-Ryder